To all fellow wives out there, your husband doesn't need his belly to be filled with all your delicious cooking meals, neither does he need all your loyalty all the time, all in the name you're having his kids who bear his surname. he doesn't need your protection all the time and your charity attitude all the time, he doesn't need all of that. Unlike women who seek attention all the time, men do not expect constant attention, but even if he doesn't expect constant attention, they deserve a little something from you every day, believe it or not, if all you do is listed above, then that's the main reason you've never been able to win your husband over.
Here are some tips am going to share on how to win your husband over.
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1: APPRECIATE HIS EFFORT AND THANK HIM FOR ALL HE DOES.
When was the last time you appreciated your husband telling him thank you for all you do, and thanking him for knowing and meeting him, when was the last time you went out of your way just to win your husband's heart? Mind you your husband desires to be well appreciated if not for anything but for them working all day just to meet your needs.
Funny enough 70 percent of husbands out there most of their complaints about their wives when discussing with their friends, is that their wives do not thank them nor even appreciate them even though they are handling things to the very best of their abilities. As a lovely wife of who you are right now, reading this article and to all wives out there who will come across this article, never take your husband for granted, make sure you appreciate all his efforts even if it's a tiny favour, Note that the gratitude that you exhibit to your husband will undoubtedly pierce through his heart and that will make him love you more.
2: OWN HIM ALL YOUR RESPECT.
A lovely and lastly marriage that has stood the test of time, if you are to take a closer look, there is an element of respect between the two couples. One thing about respect is it's beyond you being polite to your husband or his family, for every man respect from his wife is like that of an oxygen he breathes in. Respect comes in different forms, which include, speaking to him politely, honoring his desires, and avoiding disagreement.
In respect, there are two different roles played.
___ Men seek respect and honor.
__ Women seek passion in the relationship and love.
So you can see that men value respect to them respect is like a god to them.
Men always want to be respected in as much as you are their spouse, they value respect more than anything, when you respect your husband he will also in turn respect you, you need to know that respect doesn't just pop out from nowhere but it begins with trust, make trust your number one goal them give room to respect.
3; LEARN THE HABIT OF DRESSING WELL.
Dress well, with the adage that goes __ you are addressed based on the way you dress.If you don't dress well, you can never win your husband over, men love women who know how to dress and look good, get good body spray, and look good for your husband.
Most of the issues most women do have is that when going out they know how to dress properly, but when they are back home they wear the worst outfit ever, and with that, it kills your husband's desire to be with you. Cultivate the habit of dressing well, so that when your husband sees you, he will feel loved and the money he's spending on you is not a waste.
4: CALL YOUR HUSBAND STRONG ROMANTIC NAMES.
He's your husband so he deserves to be called some romantic name, before getting married you both call yourself a sweet name, what now happens that you don't call him that Name anymore.
Call your husband some romantic names reason because he's you're husband for crying out loud, he's not your cuddy teddy bear, your husband will be what you call him, so choose a romantic name and start calling him.
5: Be faithful as a wife, help him guard his home ensure that he has what he needs to be productive in what so ever is doing, and put your husband first in everything you do then you see how he will adore you more.
6: STOP NAGGING.
If you used to be a nagging wife it's hard time you put an end to it, men hate nagging women it pisses them off, that they don't want to associate themselves with them.
7: Make out time for him, make him the number one on your list, because he needs your attention more than the kids, Note __ Don't expect him to tell you, he will never tell you, it's now left for you to locate it's yourself and satisfy his heart.
8: Treat him as an adult and not as a baby, your husband is an intelligent man who needs to be treated well, men love women who treat them nicely, so let them be, don't force him to be who he's not, just respect his space when it's needed.
9: RESPECT HIS FAMILY.
The relationship you have with your parents will determine the relationship you will have with his parents when you get to meet them.
Be kind to his parents and his siblings then, in turn, see how he will respect you because you already warn his heart.
10: LEARN TO LISTEN.
Always open your ear to listening whenever your husband is talking, just like a free flow of communication. When your husband expresses his own opinion about something, pay close attention because at that moment his advice to you is far better than the advice you received from outside.
Listening to him when he's talking shows that you respect him, nothing pleases a man when a woman pays close attention when he's talking.
11: LEARN THE HABIT OF KEEPING QUIET WHEN HE'S ANGRY.
You don't need to shout at the top of your voice together with him when he's angry, all you need do at that moment is just allow him to do the shouting, then when he's calm you walk up to him and tell him your side of the story. Only this habit alone will melt your husband's heart no matter the anger in him.
12: Always tell him you LOVE HIM, whisper to his ears that you LOVE him.
13: Don't put him under pressure __ don't keep asking him questions, let him be, he's a man and not a woman "Men's thoughts are like that of a radio, they are always thinking, and any disturbance takes them to square one.